Right after I got home Sean and I had to go to Detroit for a wedding in which Sean was one of the groomsmen. The wedding was for one of his high school friends named Tony and his fiance, Kim. It was strange to be in a car and driving on my own again. Though the traffic in Detroit was kind of crazy it was in no way as chaotic and life-threatening as the traffic in China.
We arrived on Friday for the rehearsal dinner where Tony gave all of the groomsmen a personalized wooden sign. After a tasty dinner (steak and shrimp sizzling fajitas- yum!) and much socializing, we all headed over to Tony's for the afterparty. Still suffering from jet lag, I only lasted about five minutes until I fell asleep.
The next day was the wedding and it was probably the fanciest wedding I have ever been to. It was held at a country club and the ceremony was held near the lake outside on the golf course. The setting was beautiful and it was perfect weather. After the wedding all the guests stayed outside for cocktails (open bar from 5-midnight) and hors d'oeuvres. Then we all went inside for an awesome dinner of filet mignon and chicken parmesan. I was impressed. The food was good, the bride was gorgeous, the drinks were top notch, the DJ was fun and nobody had to drive anywhere (the bride and groom had arranged for shuttles in between the hotel and the wedding).
It was cool to see old friends and catch up with acquaintances that we hadn't seen in a year. Questions that I heard over and over were the following:
When are you getting married to Sean?
When's your wedding?
When are you getting engaged?
Are you getting engaged? . . . you get the picture
How was China?
When are you going back to China?
What's next after China?
How much Chinese can you speak?
I'll keep you posted about the answers as soon as I find out for myself =)
I still maintain that you eloped months ago... :)
Dear Friend,
I loved all postings in your blog