Carol (neighbor/friend), me, Kali (Loni's boyfriend), Loni (my roommate) |
When the time came for the check, the waitress simply totaled everything up and divided the number by how many people were at our table. This is completely normal and has happened at every other meal/drinks I have been at so far. It only surprised me that particular night because of the extreme disparities between what some people consumed compared with others. This was only apparent to Loni and me, however; we were the only ones bothered by it and talked about it when we got home and emptied our depressing amounts of change on the table.
Watching some live music on the street to celebrate National Women's Day (which explains all of the female underthings) |
I recall similar experiences in Chile and Argentina; when I would go out with a group of Chileans we would always share the bill equally. They call it "hacer la vaca" and it was the norm there as well. There is really no way around the current system without being rude or offensive, that I can see. It's not custom for waiters to keep individual tallies and protesting the amount one has to pay in the group would create a scene and is totally uncool. A tight-knit community who shares everything is great, but sometimes I do miss America's individualistic obsession.
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